No Right Answer (OOC advice thread)

[Gildarts]

I deal by ignoring the problems until they either goes away or become too huge to handle. Because I hate to hurt, so I push it all deep inside where it can't hurt me. Obviously not healthy, but it's an ingrained survival skill from when I was a child.

As for the second part, I can't relate. I've never been to the point where I feel like I've had a success.

For me personally they habit isn't good. There's someone who wants to be outspoken and strong within me and I don't feel like I have the tools 100% of the time to be. But I'm growing steadily enough.

Jeff I think you're successful, I see those things from the distance of the exterior. You have a beautiful, wonderful family and try to act with a compassionate heart. (Idk if it's cool for me to say other more specific things) but for me, I see those things as successes in life.