07-29-2016, 10:32 AM
I've been the one ignoring the other person in a relationship before. Can confirm that it's not a fun feeling on either end, especially if you've been together a while. Honestly, it's not a good thing to do, and I only did it for two days at most. I'm not in a relationship now and I'm happier for it, so take that how you will. Way passive-aggressive and a bad indicator. If it turns out it wasn't a phone issue, something's wrong.
So, reexamine how much time you're spending together. Maybe she wants alone time and is taking the opportunity of her absence to get it. Do you spend every moment together? Do you share all/most of your friends? Do you text her constantly/start off with the heavy stuff? Most working relationships only need a few texts here and there, like "good morning" or "goodnight" or "hey, how was your day?" to spawn conversations, all the big stuff is addressed in person. Being together 24/7 is bad— it takes a rare kind of personality to sacrifice privacy. Being apart while at home, at work or in class doesn't count as alone time. You need alone time to talk in public without worrying about your significant other's opinion. Distance. The knowledge that your partner won't be present in every part of your social life, and that they trust you enough to have at least that.
Also, try not to put all of your eggs in one person's basket. It's a huge mistake, especially if something happens and you lose them. Try and divide them up— like, y'know, talk about your personal problems with friends who care, too, and not just one person. Omniverse is an okay place to let it all out.
So, reexamine how much time you're spending together. Maybe she wants alone time and is taking the opportunity of her absence to get it. Do you spend every moment together? Do you share all/most of your friends? Do you text her constantly/start off with the heavy stuff? Most working relationships only need a few texts here and there, like "good morning" or "goodnight" or "hey, how was your day?" to spawn conversations, all the big stuff is addressed in person. Being together 24/7 is bad— it takes a rare kind of personality to sacrifice privacy. Being apart while at home, at work or in class doesn't count as alone time. You need alone time to talk in public without worrying about your significant other's opinion. Distance. The knowledge that your partner won't be present in every part of your social life, and that they trust you enough to have at least that.
Also, try not to put all of your eggs in one person's basket. It's a huge mistake, especially if something happens and you lose them. Try and divide them up— like, y'know, talk about your personal problems with friends who care, too, and not just one person. Omniverse is an okay place to let it all out.
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Gamzee Makara Wrote:S’aight. After all, dogs have a tendency to motherfuckin’ bite.