02-15-2016, 12:08 AM
Well, figured I'd give this a shot. So let the not-so-wise, not-so-old Tartaros answer your questions.
I'm probably no person to give this sort of relationship advice, but sometimes people are just dicks like that, and other times, they can be sorry, but have a hard time showing it. You can never be truly sure what someone thinks of you. We're not telepathic martian pod-people after all.
If they well and truly aren't sorry though, and this happens frequently, seek the help of someone else. No one should have to live in an abusive relationship. Ever.
Sometimes it's a week, sometimes it can be the rest of your days. Loss occurs in everyone's life, but the important thing is to not let your loss tie you down. Self-limitation and sadness are important things, but they can overwhelm you and control your entire life, which is not healthy. I know from experience.
This one is just personal opinion, but I respect the honest option more. Caving into pressure and fear of the unknown is not a good thing. Besides, if you're young, most of your peers aren't going to be the same people you live with 10 or 20 years down the line. That's something a lot of folks who are still in school don't seem to understand, that their life will not be changed by what John Doe in their physics class thinks of them.
Koal Lynch Wrote:When someone you are close to hurts you and acts sorry, but you discover they aren't, what would be the correct course of action from that point forward. (Cause rash, impulsive behavior will not end well.)
I'm probably no person to give this sort of relationship advice, but sometimes people are just dicks like that, and other times, they can be sorry, but have a hard time showing it. You can never be truly sure what someone thinks of you. We're not telepathic martian pod-people after all.
If they well and truly aren't sorry though, and this happens frequently, seek the help of someone else. No one should have to live in an abusive relationship. Ever.
Koal Lynch Wrote:Say-hypothetically-that you have just lost someone important to you. You try to move on, but you just can't shake that sad feeling. How long does that feeling insist on staying?
Sometimes it's a week, sometimes it can be the rest of your days. Loss occurs in everyone's life, but the important thing is to not let your loss tie you down. Self-limitation and sadness are important things, but they can overwhelm you and control your entire life, which is not healthy. I know from experience.
Koal Lynch Wrote:Is it better to face the persecution of your peers due to your beliefs, or live a lie due to the fear of being persecuted?
This one is just personal opinion, but I respect the honest option more. Caving into pressure and fear of the unknown is not a good thing. Besides, if you're young, most of your peers aren't going to be the same people you live with 10 or 20 years down the line. That's something a lot of folks who are still in school don't seem to understand, that their life will not be changed by what John Doe in their physics class thinks of them.