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I shall try my best to answer the questions you have provided!

Quote:1. I don't understand why people seem to stick around in relationships that aren't at all good for them. Why do people do that?

I'm going to assume you are talking about abusive relationships, which is actually an easy question to answer. Now, I am by no means a psychologist, but I believe the main reason is that, in an abusive relationship, the abuser either mentally/physically fucks with the other person, resulting in a wide variety of psychological effects on them.

In short, it's mostly fear that prevents others from leaving the relationship on their own. That's why abuse like it is such a devastating thing to experience for anyone, and should never be taken lightly.

Quote:2. Why have people lost touch with the world? I know that I'm partially guilty of this, but why do people always have their faces stick into some kind of screen. Why not speak to someone in person, rather than through a text bubble?

I.... actually don't know. I suppose it's a way for people who aren't very social (people like me, for instance) to make friends, as they are pretty afraid of meeting others face to face.

Quote:3. Why is it so hard to tell someone the truth? I have several friends who like to task about each-other being one another's back. And I always want to say something, but....reasons.

Truth can sometimes hurt a lot more than telling a lie, and the last thing anyone wants to do is say something harsh and hurt other people's feelings. It can also be a way to maintain friendships, in fear that by saying a certain thing, you'll lose those friends. Those "reasons" you probably feel when you want to tell the truth is probably that specific thing.

Quote:4. Is there such a thing as being too nice?

I don't think one can be "too nice." I DO think that one can be "too forgiving," however. It's okay to be polite to people and do things for them, but if the person you are being nice to continues to be a jerk or not show any gratitude to you at all, and you still act nice to them, then you are being too forgiving to them. It's usually a good time to start saying some harsh truths to them.

Quote:5. Why is it so hard for people to get along with one another?

Personality clashes, differing ideologies, differences in age, etc. Usually, it's people who haven't learned to accept other people's point of view that don't tend to get along with others, especially if they don't share whatever view they have. However, the people who don't get along are usually a vocal minority, as the vast majority of us can easily get along with others and/or not give a shit either way.
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